I have often heard people swear that they will provide safety to their significant others. Most of the times, it refers to them warding off any person or thing attacking their loved ones physically. But what about emotional safety? Are their loved ones emotionally safe with them? Do they pose a threat on it or is their own emotional safety at stake? What is to be done in such a situation?Continue reading
Connections have their own ways. They form themselves. They cannot be forced or manipulated and it is just obvious that we share multiple connections of various natures with people at the same time. No, I am not justifying cheating on your partner. Never do that. I am stating the obvious that it is practically impossible to be involved only with a single group of people and never interact with anyone else or never form a good bond outside of that connection. You still bond with your friends when you are married and you still interact with your colleagues, boss and other friends while you cherish bonding with your besties in one connection. You still talk to your doctor when needed.Continue reading
Paying the education fees of my child is not something that I should expect them to return. They have the right to be educated and as a parent, it is my duty to pay my child’s fee. I should never be adding it up until my child turns of legal age to ask them to now pay me back for all those years of doing a part of my duty as a parent nor shall I express this in front of them to “let them know” how much part of the expense that I have as a parent is theirs. My child is neither expected nor obliged to pay me back in any way- money or through being an overachiever or obliging or agreeing with me even when they disagree in their mind. This kind of demand as a parent cannot be considered the same or even near to teaching the importance of money or how struggle looks like or teaching simplicity to my offspring. I mean, what is wrong in pampering my child? I have often seen that “tough love” is appreciated and “gentle parenting” is looked down upon where comfort is “spoiling” a child. Is a child not supposed to feel the love of her parent(s)? I haven’t seen human emotions being taken into consideration in balance by the birth-givers in the society we live in. As a parent, it is my duty to teach my child equal give and take, right and wrong and let them decide with their wisdom.Continue reading
From the place I am seeing it, there is actually nothing called society anymore. Strangely, it is not individualism either. It is just a chaos, a mess waiting for a natural calamity to unleash it and take all the blame for separating and destroying the structure which has already ended but not yet declared to be so. The helper-seeker dynamic is somewhat supporting the idea of societal structure being intact but the rest just indicates chaos. that disguises itself sometimes as structure and at other times, as individualism.Continue reading
Years have gone by and are still passing by on setting intentions and working on them including setbacks which make me fall 10 times and good days which lift me by one. It is like the struggle is not ending but fortunately, the major lessons have. This whole journey is ugly. It is tiresome and shadow work is not beautiful, at least, I haven’t experienced it so. There are no rewards and even achieving them is an additional and unnecessary hardwork that I have to put in.Continue reading
Should I bothered or just let things happen?
Should I be involved or should I refrain?
Should I take up the permanent state of retreat
Instead of coming back to be there for those in need?Continue reading
This is a stressful time. Don’t restrict common public for the mismanagement and corruption of the government. The stress level is just increasing all over. For your sanity, switch off the news for a while and stop spreading the negativity. All of us know the reality. The pandemic is becoming like the other problems that everyone had been dealing with since years but have become immune to now because we, as the public, can’t do it. I am not saying it won’t end because what starts has to end at some time. I am also not saying that don’t be cautious. Take all the precautions necessary but also take some time to breathe.Continue reading
All of this will never end. The virus is another way of controlling the mind. “Experts” say this. The “crazy ones” say this. I have explored it myself. The difference is just that this time, to obtain political propaganda, the fear is widespread. I have been reading about it a lot and mind you, I read the comments under the videos to gain raw response and it’s like all of us know that it is never going to go away and know that masks are not effective to end the spread, just to control it yet we are being beaten into adhering what the tyrants want us to believe in. I am seeing big scams and several small scams beneath them and after obeying for years now, people have seen that this doesn’t work and so, the masks are being taken off to let the system breathe. And if you say anything against all of this, you become a “scammer”.Continue reading
They look so beautiful
But are rotten from inside.
They are advanced when it comes to them
But hide their shallowness behind their smiles.Continue reading
Following a routine is like breaking a rule for me because my normal is not being able to follow any routine. I have been trying it since I learnt about timetables in school. In everything, I do what others don’t do. I am the rule-breaker, also the one who is breaking all the unnecessary generations cycles, unlearning all the wrong that has been taught to me and relearning what must be done and I don’t care about who agrees with me and who doesn’t.Continue reading