Pivotal

Some people add meaning to our lives just by being in it. They are the most important—pivotal—and so, everything and everyone we had encounters with before them are correctly placed after them upon their arrival. It’s not like they suddenly become important. The thing is that they are not newcomers in our lives. No one much awaited can be a newcomer.

 

And so, yes, a lover or a beloved have a special place in an individual’s life—more than all else. Just like any other relation, this place can be overtook only by the individual. No other relation can fit as its substitute. So, when some people point out that a beloved’s place in a lover’s life is suddenly special, they are correct in doing so. Problem arises when they complain on this automatic and justified outer change.

Sometimes, people have issue with someone who is actively and visibly sologamous. The right of a beloved on their lover’s love exists since always but it gets activated once they are physically present in each other’s lives together, especially as a married couple. The only thing that differs is that in sologamy, you remain to be your own partner. You are the lover and the beloved. 

What is there to complain about an individual even if they change once they get married? Marriage and relationships are major phases of life and like every phase, they have their own requirements that the individual needs to fulfill for their peaceful and smooth sustenance. They are not considered major turning points for many people with no cause. 


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