Marriage is not opposed to or in support of feminism. Feminism is an idea completely independent from marriage. You may include it if you want to and we may find some aspects of feminism in marriage but like all relationships, marriage is more about balance, co-existence and equality between individuals, in core beliefs especially.
Individuals are complete in themselves but couples complement each other wherever needed. Wedding is not a bondage if you don’t think it to be and if the circumstances are favorable. It is a healthy relationship with enough space for acknowledging and discussing over topics of all sorts with an assured sense of comfort, security and discretion of maintaining privacy. Where oppression exists in the connection, respect, equality and feminism can’t.
Everyone has their own thought and opinions on marriage and relationships and so do I. Although, my thoughts keep evolving as events keep adding to my experience and as I gain more perspective and insights. Although, legally, marriage may be a bond but if couples keep checking on themselves, work on their healing and keep changing their negative or even toxic behaviours, habits, thoughts or other such patterns, this complementary relationship (rather than just a bond) can prove to be successful. Marriage, in this sense, is a mechanism that operates throughout life. Not all bonds and marriages are successful though and if they are over for good, then separation is not to be lamented.