It is weird how a simple gesture of random expression of gratitude by the person I love while conversing can trigger my hurt and remind me of another toxic situation I was in earlier in my life.
Sometimes, we hurt people without even knowing. We don’t intend to. Mostly, it happens due to the lack of awareness. We are unaware of the other person’s situation, psyche and experience so we often unintentionally trigger them.
The hurt inflicted on their wounds leads to their behavior becoming closed off. We are always open to the possibility of being healed throughout our lives because new experiences may bring with them new challenges, traumas or triggers. One can never say if they have healed forever. The cycle of healing is another wheel one finds oneself in some time during her life.