I do not follow advises from others because even if I try, I am unable to implement it. Sometimes, they don’t seem practical to me. Other times, I try to implement them but they really turn out to be not working for me. At times, I just don’t find motivation to work on them. I straight away reject them because I can’t find any logic behind them or maybe, some sense that I was trying to find in them is invisible to me.
So, I believe in learning by my experiences because that is how I learn. I rarely have any wise people who are caring and intelligent enough to advise or guide me better than me. Therefore, I am able to provide people with solutions when they are in problem but when I face a problem, I have to deal with it alone.
Even the kinds of problems I have require someone very wise or someone professional experienced in tackling with such problems so that they can help me. So, even if I don’t want to be, most of the times, I have to be my own guide, helper and adviser.